Our ultimate goal in life always revolve around making life better, having good family, owning some business ventures (wide range of investments) and all the goods that can be attained in life. We always read great books “How to succeed in life, Principles for a good life” and all those books in the bead to get right information to better our selves.
However, we; the youth have always been buried in some sort of cocoon that have prevented us from making it out and be what we want to be. Be what we`ve always have since time immemorial in our dreams. We always want to be better within a blink of a moment, we want to ankukia some thousands if not millions of cash from the blues and start investing big fortunes, buy some luxury cars, good house, etc, (Thanks to Sportpesa, elitebet and other betting sites for almost making this a reality though sometime at a cost).
Below are some of the reasons that have prevented us from making out to be better
Tied to the societal traditional norm.
The society has always had a belief. A believe that we have to follow a certain set of rules in order to succeed and every one in it have to be guided by it towards his/her goals. One has to have university degrees, masters, PhD’s, and all those big tittles to succeed in his/her life. I`m not saying, however, we should not go to school to earn all those titles. Some have succeeded but it is not a guarantee for everybody. We have accustomed to focusing on titles we would have rather than the reality of life we want to have; good life which titles often don`t bring to us.
Suli Breaks in his spoken word “SAY YES” said “you don`t have to go to University, if it is not for you”
So it is time we break this traditional societal norm. Find passion and follow it. Some of the great people we know of in the world did not complete their formal education, some in our backgrounds did not see the door to classroom yet they are successful in life.
I, you, them, us, we neglect the small things that matter. There is an event in town of entrepreneurship workshop where entrepreneurship skills would be taught. Who bothers to go? No one, it is only some few young men and women make it there. Contrary, same day, there is a function in the same town, a bash, a party, in some club. The capacity is unbelievable. We throng there in large numbers in contrast to the entrepreneurship forum. Partying is good. It is one way of enjoying life. But sometimes a balance between the comfort zones and a little effort in our struggles can do us much better given time because life begins at the end of that place you call comfort zone.
Fear of failure
We often fear to try something out new with the fear of the results. What if it fails, what if it turns out to be the opposite of my expectations, are all strings of thoughts that flows in our minds.
We have to try it anyway. Who would care of our results anywhere, it only matter to us . The sweetest part of life is breaking the shackles of fear. Try it, fail, learn from it, and try it again. In the end we would be joining the dots to form tunes humming together in perfect harmony with each other making us better.
Failing to implement the ideas we have
We always think we have to have mega brains, be geniuses to have valid ideas worth implementation. Build next Face book app, build an app that do wonders in the world. But let me tell you something; small ideas become big when we take a step to implement it. There is a story of Tom Osborn, a Kenyan who is the inventor of ‘green’ charcoal. He started his invention not knowing how big it would be. Erick Kinoti, founder and director of Shades Systems East Africa Limited started when he was selling eggs and somebody was looking for tents on hire. It is then that he realized that no one had, leading him towards his quest to coming up with the company.
The ideas we have are worth what it takes. They always lead us to something bigger than we imagined however small they initially are.
We don`t trust our struggles
We have at times been derailed by happenings in our lives, regrets have followed us, opportunities have slipped through our hands like sand grains, like water under the bridge never to be seen again. But at the end there is one thing that never fails us, our struggle.
The struggles we put in our daily lives always add up to something big someday ahead and putting trust in it will make who we wanted to be.
All the best as you set out to be better your life.